Meetings Matter: How to Plan Effective, Efficient, and Enjoyable Family Meetings
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This guide outlines why it’s important to have productive meetings, reasons you should have a meeting, and how to plan and facilitate great meetings.
How do you create a ‘safety zone’ at meetings for sensitive issues? How can executive directors help the board chair take responsibility for managing the board meeting? What is the role of the board versus the staff in facilitating the agenda? How do we create – and ensure that we follow – ground rules for stress-free family meetings?
This Content Collection provides answers to these questions and many more, offering tips and ideas for how to craft better family meeting agendas, keep your meetings on track, and accomplish your work more effectively – perhaps even while having some fun!
Note: for additional insights on understanding and managing family dynamics, see the related Content Collection, Family Dynamics: Avoiding Avoidance in Family Philanthropy.
Featured Resources
Reinvigorating Your Family Meetings
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If you are wondering how it is possible that everyone in your family is offering an excuse for missing the family meeting date, then it is time for some new ideas or approaches to turn these meetings into events that no one wants to miss. How? By planning a purposeful…
Tips and tools for effective family board meetings
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This month’s Ask the Center features tips and tools for effective family board meetings from Marla Bobowick, former Vice President at BoardSource and founder of Bobowick Consulting, and Karie Brown, principal of KB Consulting and Board member of the Hidden Leaf Foundation. Marla and Karie were the featured speakers on…
Principled Planning: A Guide for Family Foundation Retreats
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In 2005, the Council on Foundations developed a set of Stewardship Principles to help family foundation board members govern, manage and lead their family foundations. These principles were based on more than a year’s worth of work, with input from hundreds of family foundation executives and trustees as well as…
Six Simple Steps to a Successful, Stress-Free Family Meeting
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Like so many other things preparation for a family meeting is vital to its success. With a little planning you can orchestrate and carry off a family meeting that accomplishes your philanthropic goals, strengthens your family’s commitment to effective governance of your giving vehicle, and is more enjoyable than you…
How do we ensure that all family members are heard at our upcoming retreat?
Ask the Center
This month we are pleased to feature family foundation consultant and facilitator Karen Green's tips for foundation leaders on engaging retreat participants.
Do you have any ideas for a brief fun activity to begin a workshop?
Ask the Center
I’m glad you reached out to ask about family activities. Some people hate icebreakers, but I am so not one of them!
Webinars on Creative Board Agendas and Decision-making
May 12, 2022
Designing Effective Board Meetings: Purpose, Outcomes, Process, and People
Board meetings serve as a touchpoint for engaged family members and decision makers to come together in service of a collective giving effort—to make choices about strategy, direct funding, and receive updates on the philanthropy. Board meetings can also provide a space for learning and education. Join us for a…
Takeaways Blog on Designing Effective Board Meetings: Purpose, Outcomes, Process, and People
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This blog summarizes key notes from our May Fundamentals of Family Philanthropy webinar. Effective meetings are critical for engaging family foundation board members. These convenings can provide the opportunity for family members and decision makers to discuss a variety of topics like values, grantmaking strategies, and learning agendas. The most…
August 13, 2020
Planning a Family Retreat
Getting your family together for a retreat is a great way to spend quality time together, as well as focus on your family’s giving with the foundation. Families use a variety of resources to build community and discuss important topics in their philanthropy. In this webinar, you will hear how…
October 10, 2013
Creating a Culture of Learning for Your Family and Board
In the introduction to "Generations of Giving," NCFP's seminal study of multi-generational family philanthropy, lead author Kelin Gersick writes that "success in family philanthropy is measured in part by the family members' commitment to the foundation's work, the satisfaction they take in doing that work together, and the foundation's ability…
August 12, 2010
Creative Agendas for More Effective Family Meetings
Armed with the tips and ideas in this teleconference, you’ll be able to craft better family meeting agendas that fit the specific needs of your members, keep your meetings on track, ensure you focus on the right things, accomplish your work more effectively and maybe even have some fun! The…
September 15, 2016
Demystifying decision-making in family philanthropy
How do you make decisions related to your family’s philanthropy? Does the method you choose vary based on the importance or complexity of the decision? Different kinds of decisions made under varying conditions and circumstances may require different decision-making methods. This webinar features Ann Shulman, an attorney, mediator, and advisor…
Sample Groundrules, Policies, and Agendas
Retreat Manual (Longbrake Family Foundation, 2021)
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The Longbrake Family Foundation created this step-by-step guide to plan and carryout family and board retreats that include time for engaging the next generation.
Sample family foundation meetings ground rules
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Sample ground rules for family foundation meetings that accompanied the August 2010 Teleconference, Creative Agendas for More Effective Family Meetings.
Rules of Engagement for Family Foundation Board Meetings
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A: This a common complaint of families who make grants together. It’s challenging enough for unrelated people to do this important work, but personalities and family baggage can make meetings even more complicated. Judy Healey, a leading family philanthropy consultant shares 10 rules for more harmonious communication in the board…
Fist to Five Voting and Consensus
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Fist to Five is quality voting. It has the elements of consensus built in and can prepare groups to transition into consensus if they wish. Most people are accustomed to the simplicity of “yes” and “no” voting rather than the complex and more community-oriented consensus method of decision making. Fist…
Controversial grants policy (Roy A. Hunt Foundation)
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Harmonious agreement on grants is not always possible within a family foundation with diverse granting interests. Trustees sometimes struggle to develop strategies to guide the consideration process when points of view differ. This policy from the Roy A. Hunt Foundation provides a framework for managing “controversial grants” from the family…
Unconscious Bias on a Family Foundation Board: Questions to Ask Yourselves
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This series of questions was developed by consultant Nancy Murphy to help board chairs and individual board members to consider how unconscious bias may impact their feelings and reactions to ideas suggested by other members of the board and/or family.
10 Tips & Tools to Improve Meetings & Navigate Uncomfortable Conversations
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Suggestions for boards and families seeking to improve meetings and navigate uncomfortable conversations.
Tips and Tools for Virtual Family Meetings
How can board members stay connected across time zones and significant distances?
Ask the Center
As families grow, geographic dispersion of family and board members will become a common challenge. Each and every family must figure out a strategy that is right for you. Kelly Nowlin, family trustee of the Surdna Foundation, suggests the following, “The executive director or president of the foundation can make…
Do You Have Suggestions for Tools We Can Use to Communicate with Board Members?
Ask the Center
This is a great question! By nature, board meetings require a lot of time and preparation. It can be challenging to ensure all board members have the correct information at the correct time. Thankfully, over the years, different platforms have emerged to help your board be better prepared and engaged.
How Can We Conduct an Effective Board Meeting by Telephone?
Blog Post
Editor’s Note: This article addresses a strategy which an increasing number of geographically dispersed family foundations have been forced to rely upon in recent years – conducting the occasional board meeting by telephone. It is reprinted with permission from Blue Avocado, a practical and readable online magazine for nonprofits. Subscribe…
Sample Codes of Conduct
- Code of Conduct (Rockefeller Foundation)
- Code of Conduct (R. Howard Dobbs, Jr. Foundation)
- Code of Ethics (Richard and Susan Smith Family Foundation)
- Board of Trustees Code of Ethics (Homer A. and Mildred S. Scott Foundation)
- Statement of Board Culture (Surdna Foundation)
- Code of Conduct (Surdna Foundation)
- Code of Conduct (Segal Family Foundation)